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Tom in a portrait, on ADHD repetition and why comfort loops are regulation ADHD

ADHD and Repetition: Why a Brain That Craves Novelty Keeps Choosing the Same Thing

Same show. Same song. Same lunch. Why an ADHD brain that craves novelty keeps looping the familiar... and why that loop is regulation, not a...

Aug 24, 2026 Read →
Tom in a thoughtful close-up portrait, reflecting on ADHD and the weight of potential ADHD

"You Have So Much Potential": The Five Words Haunting Every ADHD Adult

Why 'you have so much potential' haunts every ADHD adult. The phantom version of you doesn't exist. It's time to stop chasing it.

Aug 23, 2026 Read →
Tom working at a laptop with a graffiti wall behind him, surrounded by the kind of creative chaos that ADHD brains thrive in ADHD

ADHD and Reading: You've Read That Paragraph Three Times. You Still Don't Know What It Says.

ADHD makes reading feel impossible. You re-read the same line, zone out mid-sentence, and buy books you'll never finish. Here's why it's not laziness.

Aug 17, 2026 Read →
Tom working at a laptop with a graffiti wall behind him, surrounded by the kind of creative chaos that ADHD brains thrive in ADHD

ADHD and Reading: You've Read That Paragraph Three Times. You Still Don't Know What It Says.

ADHD makes reading feel impossible. You re-read the same line, zone out mid-sentence, and buy books you'll never finish. Here's why it's not laziness.

Aug 17, 2026 Read →
Tom lifestyle portrait, personal and reflective ADHD

ADHD and Clutter: Every Pile in Your Flat Is a Decision You Couldn't Make

ADHD clutter isn't laziness. Every doom pile is a decision your brain couldn't make. Here's the neuroscience, the shame spiral, and what actually helps.

Aug 14, 2026 Read →
Tom in a casual portrait, relaxed and authentic ADHD

ADHD and Body Doubling: You Don't Need Motivation. You Need a Witness.

Body doubling is when someone else's presence makes impossible tasks possible. Here's why ADHD brains need it and how to make it work for you.

Aug 12, 2026 Read →
Tom looking thoughtful, caught between the pull of the phone and the present moment ADHD

ADHD and Doom Scrolling: You Picked Up Your Phone to Check the Time. That Was Two Hours Ago.

ADHD doom scrolling isn't a bad habit. It's a dopamine-starved brain meeting the world's most efficient dopamine trap. Here's what's really going on.

Aug 07, 2026 Read →
Tom in a warm-toned portrait, looking thoughtful ADHD

ADHD and Conversations: You're Nodding Along. Your Brain Left Five Minutes Ago.

ADHD doesn't just affect focus. It rewires every conversation. The tangents, the zoning out, the shame of asking 'what did you say?' Here's what's really...

Aug 05, 2026 Read →
Tom in a casual lifestyle moment, real and unguarded ADHD

ADHD and Apologising: Why 'Sorry' Became Your Default Setting

ADHD and the constant apology reflex. Why 'sorry' became your default setting, what it costs you, and how to take up space without narrating your...

Jul 31, 2026 Read →